There are usually no specific dress requirements when attending a swingers club. However, certain swingers parties will require you to dress appropriately as the events will often times be held in high end clubs. Most swinger club and swinger party organizers prefer their guests to look well dressed to give their events a level of sophistication and class. Most major swingers clubs and swinger parties will not all any guest to wear t-shirts, baseball hats, sneakers or ripped clothing of any sort. Remember, image and reputation are king in this lifestyle so dress the part.
Female guests are certainly encouraged to dress provocatively as the lifestyle is truly about the women and for the women. So through that work suit aside and get out that sexy lingerie and mini skirt and start living out your fantasies.
Male guests are usually required to dress in nice pants and button down shirts. Most swinger clubs work hard to build their reputation of being an elite establishment in this lifestyle and they encourage the males to compliment their women when attending their events.
We always encourage either emailing or calling the swingers club or swingers party you are thinking about attending prior to arriving to ensure you know the rules and are properly dressed.